Jun 29, 2007

Yes, I Am...

i found this neat essay written by and posted on Sarah Bunting's blog, Tomato Nation; she is also known as Sars, one of the writters from TWoP).

the essay is humorous, well written, and it makes a good point. check it out here.

here's a preview:

feminism n (1895) 1 : the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes 2 : organized activity on behalf of women's rights and interests — feminist n or adj — feministic adj

Above, the dictionary definition of feminism — the entire dictionary definition of feminism. It is quite straightforward and concise. If you believe in, support, look fondly on, hope for, and/or work towards equality of the sexes, you are a feminist.

Yes, you are.

The definition of feminism does not ask for two forms of photo ID. It does not care what you look like. It does not care what color skin you have, or whether that skin is clear, or how much you weigh, or what you do with your hair. You can bite your nails, or you can get them done once a week. You can spend two hours on your makeup, or five minutes, or the time it takes to find a Chapstick without any lint sticking to it. You can rock a cord mini, or khakis, or a sari, and you can layer all three. The definition of feminism does not include a mandatory leg-hair check; wax on, wax off, whatever you want. If you believe in, support, look fondly on, hope for, and/or work towards equality of the sexes, you are a feminist.

Yes, you are.

Yes. You are. You are a feminist. If you believe in, support, look fondly on, hope for, and/or work towards equality of the sexes, you are a feminist. Period. It's more complicated than that — of course it is. And yet…it's exactly that simple. It has nothing to do with your sexual preference or your sense of humor or your fashion sense or your charitable donations, or what pronouns you use in official correspondence, or whether you think Andrea Dworkin is full of crap, or how often you read Bust or Ms. — or, actually, whether you've got a vagina. In the end, it's not about that. It is about political, economic, and social equality of the sexes, and it is about claiming that definition on its own terms, instead of qualifying it because you don't want anyone to think that you don't shave your pits. It is about saying that you are a feminist and just letting the statement sit there, instead of feeling a compulsion to modify it immediately with "but not, you know, that kind of feminist" because you don't want to come off all Angry Girl. It is about understanding that liking Oprah and Chanel doesn't make you a "bad" feminist — that only "liking" the wage gap makes you a "bad" feminist, because "bad" does not enter into the definition of feminism. It is about knowing that, if folks can't grab a dictionary and see for themselves that the entry for "feminism" doesn't say anything about hating men or chick flicks or any of that crap, it's their problem.

It is about knowing that a woman is the equal of a man in art, at work, and under the law, whether you say it out loud or not — but for God's sake start saying it out loud already. You are a feminist.

I am a feminist too. Look it up.

Jun 28, 2007




excellent movie! seriously - excellent!

Jun 22, 2007

what she said...

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it may be necessary from time to time to give a stupid or misinformed beholder a black eye."
~Miss Piggy

heh, cute.

Jun 21, 2007

how true...

"I myself am made entirely of flaws, stitched together with good intentions." ~Augusten Burroughs

Jun 18, 2007

normally i dont like making phone calls outside of friends and family. i hate calling and waiting and going through those automated systems and whatnot. but i have to say, i have never had a problem with t-mobile. this seems like a strange thing to say because i dont think i know anyone else who would say the same about their cell phone company. ive heard people complain about all the major cell phone companies, including tmobile. but every time i call, a live person is readily available (24/7 customer service) and the representatives are always attentive, polite, complimentary and friendly/flirty/funny. i never feel swindled by them or like im stuck with something i dont want or thats more expensive than i wanted. so i just had to give them a little plug here because i had to call today and i was dreading it and in a terrible mood, and it was a surprisingly pleasant experience considering the task at hand.

so anyway -- the reason for the call is that my sibs and i are going to get my dad a cell phone as a bday/father's day gift. he has no cell or land line right now, and with his poor health thats not a good situation. so we're paying for a 1-year contract for him. and guess whose name its gonna be under...yup, thats right, mine. its probably stupid to do this. but sometimes i do stupid things. i mean, i basically trust my sibs -- im not really worried about them not paying or screwing me over. and besides, i know where they live, hehe. im more concerned about my dad managing to churn out a $500 bill or something equally ridiculous. so i have mixed feelings about the whole thing. he obviously needs the phone and is not in a position to get one for himself. we cannot think of anything else to get him for his bday/father's day. and, of course, my rescue-and-take-care-of-people-and-fix-things-even-if-it-could-bite-you-in-the-ass impulse is being triggered. so i guess, the worst case scenario is that -- wait, never mind, my brain is shutting down now thinking about the worst case scenario possibilities. now activating hope-for-the-best mode...

Jun 17, 2007

breaktime

still working on that closet...taking a music break and got distracted.

im always on the lookout for new music. i tend to listen to the same playlist obsessively until i wear those songs out and i cant bear to listen to them anymore. then i start over with a new playlist. i actually have a playlist on my ipod called "current faves" which is contantly being updated with new songs. but, there are some songs i never get tired of and that always grab me. these are the songs that i almost never skip past on my ipod, no matter what mood im in. im gonna work on a new playlist -- "forever faves". here's some of those songs:

"Wonderwall", Oasis


"Maps", Yeah Yeah Yeahs


"Sweetness", Jimmy Eat World

cleaning out the closet

the entire contents of my previously overflowing closet are now strewn about my apartment. ugh, this was a bad idea...

Jun 12, 2007

hehe



James Franco gets fired as lead role in Knocked Up

ha ha!

i took a break from my confinement to go for a walk, and it was awesome! i feel a million times better now! :) and when i got back i discovered i got some good netflix movies in the mail today! woo hoo!

Jun 11, 2007

ive been miserably sick for the last week. i started feeling better over the weekend, and then i got a nasty eye infection. for the last couple of days ive looked like i deserve a lead role in 28 Weeks Later. i think god hates me or something. so now im on lockdown til wednesday (per doctor's orders - eye infection is pretty contagious so i cant go to work and am pretty much stuck at home). but now ive got a bad case of cabin fever. i was gonna bust out of here and go to the grocery store (ice cream cures sore throats, right?). i mean, assuming i didnt breathe on people and no one accidentally licks my eyeball, it should be ok, right? but then a-dawg reminded me about that whole scandal created by the tb patient, so i felt guilty and decided to be good and stay home and keep my cooties to myself. at least lucy is here to cuddle with me...and she still loves me even tho im a disgusting, creepy eye monster.

Jun 6, 2007

"i cant turn off the naked people!"

"men are not people; we are digustoids in human form". how true, how true!



so yea, while ive been sick, ive been rewatching episodes of Coupling. jeff is by far my favorite character! here's a short description of some of the show's highlights:

"From this point, the intrepid twentysomethings head into the metropolitan dating scene and tackle some important dilemmas. Important dilemmas such as: exactly when does your girlfriend have the right to tell you to get rid of your "private video collection"? How do you chat up a girl who doesn't speak a word of English? Is it acceptable to pretend to be an amputee in order to get a date? How do you recover from a visit from The Melty Man? Should you be able to recount from memory the number and location of all the freckles on your lover's bottom? And so on."

Jun 3, 2007

new music

today i spent the day hungover and roaming around evanston with anna (i was hungover; anna was not). we saw Knocked Up, which was awesome -- very funny and i enjoyed it a lot. we had appetizers for lunch (perfect hangover food!) and browsed some of the stores near the theater. there was music playing at urban outfitters, and i took note of one song that i thought was just way too perfect for me today, lol.

this is "Sunday" by Bloc Party.

"Heavy night, it was a heavy night
Feels like we've come back from the dead
Heavy night, it was a heavy night
I cannot remember what I said to anyone
If we get up now, we can catch the afternoon
Watch the under15's playing football in the park
Let’s sit in St Leonard's on this alcoholic day
We're doing the best, with what we've got

I love you in the morning
When you're all hung over
I love you in the morning
When you are strung out

I work hard all week and so do you
We deserve to let off some steam
Less orthodox creeping,
We need to rage through this life
There might be ones who are smarter than you
That have the right answers, that wear better shoes
Forget about those melting ice caps
We're doing the best, with what we've got

I love you in the morning
When you are hung over
I love you in the morning
When you are strung out..."

Jun 1, 2007

anna posted a video of rilo kiley's "portions for foxes" music video. i cant stop listening to this song!

"There's blood in my mouth cuz I've been biting my tongue all week
I keep on talkin' trash but I never say anything
And the talkin' leads to touchin'
and the touchin' leads to sex
and then there is no mystery left

And it's bad news
Baby I'm bad news
I'm just bad news, bad news, bad news

I know I'm alone if I'm with or without you
but just bein' around you offers me another form of relief
When the loneliness leads to bad dreams
and the bad dreams lead me to callin' you
and I call you and say "C'MERE!"

And it's bad news
Baby I'm bad news
I'm just bad news, bad news, bad news

And it's bad news
Baby it's bad news
It's just bad news, bad news, bad news

Cuz you're just damage control
for a walking corpse like me - like you

Cuz we'll all be
Portions for foxes
Yeah we'll all be
Portions for foxes

There's a pretty young thing in front of you
and she's real pretty and she's real into you
and then she's sleepin' inside of you
and the talkin' leads to touchin'
then touchin' leads to sex
and then there is no mystery left

And it's bad news
I don't blame you
I do the same thing
I get lonely too..."

ive also cant stop listening to augustana's "boston".



"...She said I think I'll go to Boston.
I think I'll start a new life.
I think I'll start it over, where no one knows my name.
I'll get out of California; I'm tired of the weather.
I think I'll get a lover and fly 'em out to Spain.
I think I'll go to Boston; I think that I'm just tired.
I think I need a new town, to leave this all behind.
I think I need a sunrise; I'm tired of the sunset.
I hear it's nice in the summer; some snow would be nice, oh yeah.
You don't know me, you don't even care, oh yeah.."