Aug 26, 2007
ive been listening to this song a lot for the last several days, and i was gonna blog about it and the chord it strikes with me, but its not happening. not quite ready to dig into that one. and besides, it cant be said any more simply than amy puts it, "I always have to comfort you when I'm there. But that's what I need you to do - stroke my hair!" ugh, and even as im trying to avoid digging into this, i cant help but notice that the few people in my life this doesnt apply to are all women. how interesting is that? in my life ive never known any men who could give as much as they needed and took from me. done - no more for now.
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There is at least one out there for you. I am probably more likely to have men our there writing blogs like this about me.
well, i dont know about that. i dont think it is something that applies to you -- youve always been the kind of person (in my experience) who gives at least as good as you get. and, you're definitely a strong person - which isnt the same thing as a perfect person. and thats ok.
and you know, im not looking for a perfect man either. im just looking for someone who's best effort is equal to mine and who has the guts to step it up when they screw up. im starting to feel like too many people are just too weak to do that, and it bums me out. i really truly dont get why that is too much to ask of people. i dont understand how a person could be ok in any type of relationship (romantic, friendship, family, etc) and not want to give 110% if thats what they are getting. and its even harder for me to understand how people can live with running from their responsibilities, from being accountable for their actions and behavior. i mean, i certainly dont find it easy to do so, but it always seems to me to be better than the alternative. maybe im crazy?
Thank you, De.
I know. I have a hard time getting over other people's mistakes, because I am equally as hard on them as myself. The bad part is I am way way way too hard on everyone.
so i guess i am harder on people for not fixing or dealing with their mistakes than i am about the making of the mistake...but it seems even that is too much for most people.
You should teach me how to be okay with the mistakes after people deal with them...and deal with them well.
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